You look fine on the outside, but you don’t feel fine on the inside.
You know change is non-negotiable, and you don't know where to start.
Let me show you how to begin.
Therapy for professionals ready to do the work.
Your life is demanding. All eyes are on you, but no one sees what the pressure is doing to you.
Life seems shiny on the outside, but you feel empty inside.
You're living in a pressure cooker, managing urges and behaviors you can't get ahead of.
Negative thoughts & memories invade your mind on repeat, no matter how much you distract and pretend it's not a problem.
The stress is exhausting. You're worried about your future, your marriage, your reputation. How the hell can you get out of this?
The worst part is the unspoken fear that if people really knew what you're struggling with, they'd judge or reject you.
Once we get to work, here's what's possible for you:
You stop living in secrecy, shame, and fear. We get the elephant off your chest so you start to feel more normal & grounded.
Your past doesn't run the show anymore: you have the tools to see the patterns and the skills to shift them.
The white-knuckling through life ends because you finally understand the underlying causes and can do something about them.
You have control, confidence, and stability, so you feel secure in yourself, your marriage, and your career again.
After working together, clients report life feels more "colorful" and they are more "present and alive".
Professionals like you choose to work with me when they're ready for lasting, deeper change in their life.
Let's be honest: you may have done therapy in the past that was semi-helpful.
Like those breathing techniques that never quite helped or the therapy that kept you talking in circles. But none of it truly addressed the unwanted thoughts & behaviors that have so much power over you.
Now, you're ready to feel like a whole person again. To trust yourself and be present in your everyday life.
This is why you're ready for a level of in-depth support that helps you create impactful improvements.
When you're ready to stop performing, pretending, and bracing for what might slip out or be discovered, these are the therapeutic approaches to get you there:
Services
Therapy for Reputation Damage & Public Fallout
Unwanted visibility has you feeling anxious while trying to keep your head straight. Immediate support will steady you and reduce your day-to-day strain.
Our work gives you treatment and a plan to:
Rebuild trust with the people you care about – including yourself
Understand the patterns that got you here so this time is the last time
Strategize next steps without the fear of being seen or the trauma of being in headlines
EMDR for Trauma, C-PTSD, or Impactful Experiences
When change is non-negotiable, you don't need to face it alone.
EMDR therapy is powerful when you:
Feel something deeper's going on, maybe from past traumatic or impactful events
Hold onto negative, limiting beliefs about yourself or others - and it's affecting your relationships
Replay situations in your mind and can't turn them off
Want better results and life improvement than your previous talk therapy efforts gave you
Therapy for Porn Addiction & Compulsive Sexual Behaviors
Whether your world just imploded or you've been white-knuckling it for years, start here.
Working together, we:
Address the underlying causes of compulsive sexual behaviors, including cyber-infidelity, cam sites, and sex addiction.
Understand what's driving it all – without the shame spiral or anxiety
Build a treatment plan to give these unwanted patterns way less power over you
Meet your provider
Once an oyster farmer, now a licensed professional counselor and EMDR-certified therapist.
I specialize in working with men facing the pressures of high-visibility careers: compulsive sexual behavior, the effects of public fallout, and the shame that rides underneath it all.
With a history treating complex PTSD and other trauma-related work, I began to see the gap in care for men. Given my own history as the only woman on a working oyster farm, I wanted to help fill it, for the men whose lives demand they stay on their white horse: always mounted, always composed, never showing the struggle.
Frequently Asked Questions
-
This work is for outwardly high-functioning individuals who are privately struggling: navigating the trauma of public fallout, struggling with compulsive sexual behavior- or the shame underneath it all. If you look fine on the outside and don't feel it on the inside, you're the person this practice was built for.
-
Blue Horse LLC is a private-pay practice. Sessions run 55-60 minutes at $350, with longer sessions available.
Superbills for out-of-network reimbursement are available on request.
-
By telehealth in Houston Texas, and across Texas, New York, Connecticut, and Rhode Island.