Therapy for men with high-profile careers & pressure-filled lives
You look successful on the outside, but inside you know something’s off...
And it’s time to deal with it.
When you don’t know where to start, let me show you how to begin.
Public Fallout |Porn Addiction & Crisis | Trauma & EMDR
Life is demanding.
All eyes are on you, but no one sees what living in a pressure cooker is doing to you.
You're empty inside. Managing behaviors you can't get ahead of.
Negative thoughts invade your mind, no matter how much you distract or pretend there’s no problem.
The stress is exhausting. You worry about your future, your marriage, your reputation.
The worst part is the fear that if anyone knew what you're struggling with, they'd judge or reject you.
How the hell can you get out of this?
Here's what's possible with this work:
We get the elephant off your chest so you stop living in secrecy, shame, and fear. Life gets more grounded, and your past doesn't run the show anymore. You see your patterns and have the skills to shift them…
White-knuckling through life stops.
You regain your sense of control, confidence, and stability, feeling secure in yourself, your marriage, and your career.
For male professionals who want lasting, deeper change in their life, this is where we start.
Let's be honest: you’ve done therapy in the past that was semi-helpful.
Breathing techniques that never quite worked or the therapy that kept you talking in circles. None of it dealt with the thoughts and behaviors that have so much power.
Now, you're ready to feel whole again. To trust yourself and be present in your everyday life.
You want in-depth support to help you create impactful improvements.
Here are the therapeutic approaches to get you there:
Services
Therapy for Reputation Damage & Public Fallout
Unwanted visibility has you feeling anxious while trying to keep your head straight. Immediate support will steady you and reduce your day-to-day strain.
Our work gives you treatment and a plan to:
Rebuild trust with the people you care about – including yourself
Understand the patterns that got you here so this time is the last time
Strategize next steps without the fear of being seen or the trauma of being in headlines
EMDR for Trauma, C-PTSD, or Impactful Experiences
When change is non-negotiable, you don't need to face it alone.
EMDR therapy is powerful when you:
Feel something deeper's going on, maybe from past traumatic or impactful events
Hold onto negative, limiting beliefs about yourself or others - and it's affecting your relationships
Replay situations in your mind and can't turn them off
Want better results and life improvement than your previous talk therapy efforts gave you
Therapy for Porn Addiction & Compulsive Sexual Behaviors
Whether your world just imploded or you've been white-knuckling it for years, start here.
Working together, we:
Address the underlying causes of compulsive sexual behaviors, including cyber-infidelity, cam sites, and sex addiction.
Understand what's driving it all – without the shame spiral or anxiety
Build a treatment plan to give these unwanted patterns way less power over you
Meet your provider, Caroline Furcolo, LMHC, LPC
There's a gap in care for men, and working as the only woman on an oyster farm, I witnessed it first-hand for years.
Men feel the pressure of the "White Horse Complex", always expected to stay mounted, remain composed, and project unshakeable confidence -
Which creates an impossible standard.
It also creates unique patterns of trauma that men must face, usually alone and without tools or support.
This is why my therapy practice specializes in working with men facing the heavy demands of life who need support to move through the real-time effects of traumatic experiences, complex PTSD, compulsive sexual behaviors, or reputation fallout.
As a licensed professional counselor and EMDR-certified therapist, I support you through the shame, exhaustion, and confusion that lives underneath everything you're carrying.
I use my training as a trauma therapist to close this gap in care for men.
Licensed to work virtually in NY, CT, RI & TX
Education & Training:
M.A. Clinical Mental Health Counseling- Northwestern University
B.S. in Psychology- University of Rhode Island
EMDR Certified
Certified Clinical Trauma Professional
Advanced post-graduate trainings in complex- trauma, compulsive sexual behaviors, men’s issues, shame & imposter syndrome
What Clients Say About Their Experience*:
"In our sessions I feel so understood that I actually look forward to talking with you."
"It always feels safe to talk to you. You ask questions that make it easy to talk about this stuff and think about it differently. My past therapy experience wasn't like that."
"I tried talking to my wife in the way we discussed last session, and it was really helpful."
"When we started working together, I was a mess. I can't believe how awful things were compared to now. My marriage is happier than it's ever been. I have real friends, and I feel like myself again."
"Therapy's been hard, but our laughter in our sessions makes it so much easier."
"I'm more confident than I've ever been, so…that's been nice."
*Anonymized for privacy
Frequently Asked Questions
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If you look fine on the outside ,and don't feel it on the inside, and you’re ready to do the work, you're the person this practice was built for.
This work is for outwardly high-functioning individuals who are privately struggling: navigating the trauma of public humiliation, struggling with compulsive sexual behavior, or carrying past traumatic experiences.
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Every client begins with an initial 90-minute session billed at $500.
Subsequent sessions run 55- minutes, billed at $350. With 90-minute appointments available, depending on individual’s needs.
Blue Horse LLC is out of network with all insurance providers. Superbills for out-of-network reimbursement are available on request.
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By telehealth in Houston, Texas, and across Texas, New York, Connecticut, and Rhode Island.